Here are some tips I can offer:
Shyness and poor social skills. Honest communication is essential to establishing and continuing a relationship. Lack of communication is one of the main reasons most relationships break down.
Needy and desperate. No one likes to feel pressured and demanded by someone who is looking for someone.
You don’t know what you want and need from a relationship or what a person needs to be compatible with you: so you just pounce on any random person and think that if you throw enough spaghetti at the relationship wall, surely something will stick and it will work out. Right? Wrong.
You may have the unfortunate misfortune of meeting that special someone who doesn't know what space is. They will always be there with their favorite drink. They are like lonely puppies who can't function without you. It's true, it does sound a little cute. When guys refuse to leave you alone and don't let you function, it does get old.
No goals. What future do you want from the relationship? Long-term commitment? Kids or no kids? Sex or no sex? Short-term or FWB? Polyamory, swinger, gay, trans, BDSM or other alternative needs and desires? You need to understand these things about yourself so you can tell potential partners who you are. So that you both can figure out whether you are compatible.
Health or mental health, substance abuse, gambling or behavioural problems. Ideally you should be in control of your problems at all times. No potential partner will want to be the unpaid carer of someone who cannot figure out how to look after themselves or organise the network to do so.
Obsessed with work. Many people turn to people for sexual relief who work very long hours and the only time available to build a relationship is to occasionally go out together or maybe meet up once a week. For most people this much quality partner time is not enough to sustain a relationship.
Clingy men are obnoxious. Here's how you can tell the difference between being emotionally available and being clingy. Today, we're going to show you how to recognize the signs of an emotionally needy man. Sampriti Das (Masters of Clinical Psychology, PhD Researcher) specializes in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy as well as Holistic Transformational Psychotherapy.
Lacks a sense of humour. Laughing together is a vital part of long term happiness in a relationship.
Very possessive and obsessive towards the partner. Possessiveness is disgusting. This person is a human being with flaws and needs just like you.
Not emotionally available. Hurt from past relationships and heartless. Still in love with an ex. Therapy is needed to get over the nonsense of past hurts. You have to do the work so that you can be available to love again.
Unreliable - If you suspect and distrust everyone because of a past betrayal, you will not be able to maintain a relationship. Trust is very important. Trust is your decision. No one can win your trust.
Traditional gender roles dictate that men should have a strong masculine character and keep their emotions hidden. They are also expected to maintain a stoic exterior. It's a good sign if your man feels confident enough about his masculinity to openly discuss his feelings. If a man is comfortable expressing his feelings openly, it is a sign that he feels safe with that person.
No skills. If you can't dress for the occasion when needed, take good care of yourself and your things, and hire professionals to make up for deficiencies, you may be a burden to a potential partner.
Sexual experience limited to watching pornography and weak to love. Everyone wants to feel loved and have their needs taken care of through sex. Learn to love, not porn.
Low self-esteem - Always lamenting your life or bragging about how wonderful you are. None of these qualities are attractive to a potential partner.
Too much of anything is bad for everyone. When he called you up every night till 3 am to talk to you after you started dating, that was fine. As the relationship gets older, it is important to get back to a normal routine. If you are going to meet early the next morning, staying up late may not work. The signs of an angry man are more evident at this time.
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